Cultivate…RELATIONSHIPS by making more deposits than withdrawals.

It’s sooo easy to focus on the negative behaviors of our children. When behavior needs correcting, we feel we can’t let it go or else the problem will get worse. When our children are doing things right in our eyes, however, it can feel more optional as to whether or not we acknowledge it. After…

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Cultivate…COMMUNICATION by changing a defensive climate to a supportive climate

“Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. The greatest problem with communication is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply. When we listen with curiosity, we don’t listen with the intent to reply. We listen for what’s behind the words”  Roy T. Bennett Our loved ones will only communicate with us…

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Cultivate KNOWLEDGE by understanding why adults should prevent access to alcohol.

The most common ways youth report getting alcohol are: From someone they know who is 21 years or older At home WITH a parent’s permission (Source: Oklahoma Prevention Needs Assessment Survey 2018) Many parents believe that youth are going to drink anyway, so therefore they can better protect the child by at least making sure…

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